Thoughts and Rambles of a Dapper Wolf

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This is what I deal with every night. Boxes on boxes of shit #doesdaytimeevendoanything?

#whitehistorymonth we were only able to colonize cause we were filthy and brought diseases wherever we went

The one good thing about working a heavy labour job is losing weight #sweatingmyassoff #youshouldseethegunshow #abs?

Asker Anonymous Asks:
I'm not a dick to her I don't say anything at this point it's been going on for months. I've tried doing it myself she gets upset because I'm masturbating and watching porn. I couldn't put everything in the message tumblr only gives me so much room.
loneookami loneookami Said:

I’ll never push her to do anything she does not want to do. I was starting to feel like she doesn’t find me attractive and it sucks. But thanks.

I wont apologize for my earlier response cause as a survivor and a decent human being I take consent very seriously

But I will try to offer a suggestion, have you talk to her about why she gets upset? have you been romancing her or only trying to get your fuck on? is there something going on her life thats stressful?

Like have you just talked to her about the situation?

Communication is key

and if things have run its course then thats sad but move on so both of you can be happy

I promise its not a hard concept. So here we go consent is vital, if someone isnt enthusiastically saying yes then you dont have sex. The End

Thats it. No ifs, ands, or buts about it.  If the person you want to have sex with doesnt knowingly and in sound mind give enthusiastic consent then you dont have sex.

I dont care how horny you are or any other bs excuse. Are you an adult? then you can fuckin handle being horny without coercing someone to pleasure you.

And that was our lesson for today.

Tune in next time to see me wrestle a dragon.

tinyblackchild said: good answer. If she doesn’t wanna have sex, then she doesn’t wanna have sex.

Exactly.

 

roughloveiskey said: Some people don’t get off by themselves. How about you don’t be a dick either to someone looking for advice.

When that person asking for advice sounds like theyre upset their partner doesnt want to have sex slash seems to be pressuring them to fulfill their needs damn right I’ll be a dick to them cause thats fuckin bs and I refuse to allow anyone to think its ok to shame or push their partners to have sex just cause they want to

they asked for advice I gave them mine 

and if they cant get off alone then they need to find a partner that matches their drive and stop pushing their partner that doesnt

Asker Anonymous Asks:
I have a really high sex drive and want to be intimate with my girlfriend often, but she doesn't feel the same and when I bring it up she says it's all I care about. We haven't had sex in weeks and is driving me insane. Any advice?
loneookami loneookami Said:

Masturbate and stop being a dick to your gf

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